Tanu weds Manu is faring good in theatres. The movie is good no doubt, but there is a thing that has been ruined. I'm glad there won't be any further sequels, because if they are made, Manu will see a glimpse of a life close to hell thanks to his Narcissist wife. Narcissist is, by definition a personality disorder in which a person is excessively preoccupied with personal prestige, power, adequacy and vanity, mentally unable to see the destructive damage they are doing to themselves and others.
Tanu left her boyfriend Raja Awasthi, to be with Manu in a very short span of time. I mean, excuse me! You were happily tattooed. Just few days with manu, and you found "True" love, yet again! Not giving a shit to your family, has no personal identity, flirts with people around and no doubt narcissist. On the other hand, there was this datto. National level athlete, self made, caring towards her family, strong enough to take a stand on her own. Annnnnd, Guess whom did Manu choose, it should not be a hard guess, because Narcissist dictates your choices!
We all have or have had or will have a narcissist person in our lives. There are just too many of them. Some of the signs are:
- They lack Empathy, the very trait that makes us human. Tanu never cared about her actions, or the impact they had on her husband. She willingly went to Raja Awasthy. But could not stand it when Manu found someone else.
- They are Manipulative. Remember the dialogue, "Hum bewafa kya hue...aap to badchalan hogye!" Just to place yourself superior to the other person. "Abhi to aur jaleel hona baki hai" to make Manu think think think annnnnd thinnkk, and get trapped in the emotional web. To make him think and forget all the wrong doings she did to him.
- Are highly reactive to criticism. The moment Raja Awasthi criticised her in Part 1 and he got ummmm.....Dumped! -_-
- They donot care about your thoughts or feelings or ideas.Anything you say in relation to yourself will be dismissed or made fun of.
These are some of the traits that i noticed. Manu was a boring person , it was evident in first part. She never fell in love with him. If she fell in love with him in a few days, what was it that She and Raja had?
The happiness Manu had with Datto was never seen with Tanu, never saw him smile at all with her.
A narcissist will never let you go! They need a weaker person to put it on, to use as a punching bag, to satisfy the ego part.
Dude, she left you in a mental Asylum, cheated behind your back, stole your credit card, went to her ex, and you chose her in the end just because She cried! Really? True Love? *Slow Claps*
God Bless Manu, Life gave him a second chance to make his life better. But guess he was not brave enough. Not to forget ruined Datto's life too. Just imagine what would happen in her village now. All the reputation gone. Next time she won't have enough courage to show her choice to the village, because "Her choice" Sharma ji backed off!
And, ye Komal kahaan gyi! Khair chhodo.....
Banno tera swagger laage shexy!
Jai Hind
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